Showing posts with label veterans. Show all posts
Showing posts with label veterans. Show all posts

07 June 2021

When a Veteran Leaves The ‘Job’

When a serviceman or servicewoman leaves the 'job' and retires to a better life, they trade hats. The one that spoke of their branch of the military is traded for those that say "Veteran".  Many are jealous, some are pleased, and others, who may have already retired, wonder if he knows what he is leaving behind, because we already know.

1. We know, for example, that after a lifetime of camaraderie that few experience, it will remain as a longing for those past times.

2. We know in the Military life there is a fellowship which lasts long after the uniforms are hung up in the back of the closet.
 
3. We know even if he throws them away, they will be on him with every step and breath that remains in his life. We also know how the very bearing of the man  speaks of what he was and, in his heart, still is.
 
These are the burdens of the job. You will still look at people suspiciously, still see what others do not see or choose to ignore and always will look at the rest of the Military world with a respect for what they do; only grown in a lifetime of knowing.
 
Never think for one moment you are escaping from that life. You are only escaping the 'job' and merely being allowed to leave 'active' duty.
 
So what I wish for you is that whenever you ease into retirement, in your heart you never forget for one moment that you are still a member of the greatest fraternity the world has ever known.

NOW... Civilian Friends vs. Veteran Friends Comparisons:
 
CIVILIAN FRIENDS: Get upset if you're too busy to talk to them for a week.
VETERAN FRIENDS: Are glad to see you after years, and will happily carry on the same conversation you were having the last time you met.
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CIVILIAN FRIENDS: Have never seen you cry.
VETERAN FRIENDS: Have cried with you.
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CIVILIAN FRIENDS: Keep your stuff so long they forget it's yours.
VETERAN FRIENDS: Borrow your stuff for a few days then give it back.
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CIVILIAN FRIENDS: Know a few things about you.
VETERAN FRIENDS: Could write a book with direct quotes from you.
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CIVILIAN FRIENDS: Will leave you behind if that's what the crowd is doing.
VETERAN FRIENDS: Will stand by you no matter what the crowd does.
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CIVILIAN FRIENDS: Are for a while.
VETERAN FRIENDS: Are for life.
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CIVILIAN FRIENDS: Have shared a few experiences...
VETERAN FRIENDS: Have shared a lifetime of experiences no citizen could ever dream of...
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CIVILIAN FRIENDS: Will take your drink away when they think you've had enough.
VETERAN FRIENDS: Will look at you stumbling all over the place and say, 'You better drink the rest of that before you spill it!' Then they carry you home safely and put you to bed.
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CIVILIAN FRIENDS: Will ignore this.
VETERAN FRIENDS: Will forward this to another veteran.

10 November 2019

Veterans Day Discounts & Deals

Hometown Buffet – November 11, 2019
Active duty, reserve, or retired military personnel in uniform or with a valid ID receive 15% discount on Military Mondays (Every Monday including Memorial Day) at Hometown Buffet. Be sure to ask your server for more details. Visit the BJs Wholesale website for details. http://www.hometownbuffet.com/military/


Old Country Buffett – November 11, 2019
Active duty, reserve, or retired military personnel in uniform or with a valid ID receive 15% discount on Military Mondays (Every Monday including Memorial Day) with up to four members of the family at Old Country Buffett. Be sure to ask your server for more details. Visit the BJs Wholesale website for details. http://www.oldcountrybuffet.com/military-2/


Applebee’s – November 11, 2019
Veterans and active-duty military receive a free meal from a limited menu at participating Applebee’s on November 11. Dine-in only. Visit the Applebee’s website for details.


Chili’s Grill and Bar – November 11, 2019
All Veterans and active duty military personnel can get a free meal on Veteran’s Day Monday, November 11, 2019, at all participating Chili’s Grill and Bar restaurants. Please call ahead to your local Chili’s restaurant if you have any questions about your Veteran’s Day meals. Visit the Chili’s website for details. https://www.chilis.com/restaurant-events/veterans-day


Baker’s Square – November 11, 2019
All Veterans and active duty service members receive a free meal on Veteran’s Day (November 11, 2019) from Baker’s Square. Visit the Baker’s Square website for details.


54th Street Grill and Bar – November 11, 2019
Veterans + Active Duty military personnel who dine inside a 54th Street Grill and Bar  receive a free entrée up to $12 on Veteran’s Day (11-11-2019). Visit the 54th Street Grill and Bar website for details.


Golden Corral – November 11, 2019
Military Veterans, retirees, and active duty members are being offered a free sit-in “thank you” dinner on Monday, November 11, 2019, from 5pm -9pm. For more details visit the Golden Corral website. https://www.goldencorral.com/military-appreciation/


Red Robin – November 11, 2019
Veteran’s and Active Duty Military are being offered a free dine-in Red’s Tavern Double Burger and Bottomless Steak Fries on Veteran’s Day, 11/11/2019. Visit the Red Robin website for details.


Mission BBQ November 11, 2019
Veterans and active duty members will receive a free sandwich and slice of cake (while supplies lasts) at Mission BBQ on Veteran’s Day, 11/11/2019. Visit the Mission BBQ website for details.


O’Charley’s Restaurant November 11, 2019
Veterans of the armed forces and/or officers still serving, you can enjoy a free meal at O’Charley’s this Veterans Day, with several fan favorites from the restaurant’s menu to choose from. Visit the O’Charley’s website for details.


Grub Burger November 11, 2019
Veterans and active military members can get a free meal at a Grub Burger Bar location on Saturday, November 11, for Veterans Day. Visit the Grub Burger website for details.


IHOP – November 11, 2019
All Active duty and Retired Veterans in observance of Veteran’s Day, November 11, are invited to come in to IHOP and enjoy a “free” breakfast. Visit the IHOP website for details. https://www.operationmilitarykids.org/ihop-military-discount/


Lucille’s BBQ  – November 11, 2019
Veterans and active duty military will enjoy a complimentary dessert with proof of service on November 11. Visit the Lucille’s BBQ website for details. https://www.lucillesbbq.com/promos/military-family-month


Fogo De Chao – November 11, 2019
Veterans and active duty personnel receive discounts on November 11, which includes 50% towards their meal at Fogo De Chao, in addition up to three of their guests enjoy 10% off. Visit the Fogo-De-Chao website for details.


Texas Road House – November 11, 2019
Veterans and active military receive a free lunch on November 11, from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. at all Texas Roadhouse locations. Visit the Texas Road House website for details.


TGI Fridays – November 11, 2019
Military guests with a valid military ID will be treated to a free lunch menu item up to $12 on November 11, from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. These guests also will receive a $5 coupon for their next meal at Fridays. Call your local TGI Fridays for details.


Subway – November 11, 2019
Military Veterans with a valid ID are being offered a free six-inch sub on November 11 at select locations. Call or visit your nearest location for details.


Outback – November 11, 2019
Veterans with a military ID can get a free Bloomin’ Onion and non-alcoholic beverage on November 11, and 20 percent off their check Nov. 12 to Dec. 31. Call or visit your nearest location for details.


BJs Restaurant Brewhouse – November 11, 2019
Military and Veteran’s with a valid ID are being offered a free entree up to $14.95 and a free Dr. Pepper beverage on November 11. Call your local BJs Restaurant Brewhouse for details. https://www.bjsrestaurants.com/VeteransDay


Bandanas BBQ Restaurant – November 11, 2019
Veterans and active duty military are being offered a free meal on November 11. Call or visit your nearest location for details.


Manhattan Bagel Company – November 11, 2019
All active, former and retired military personnel with valid identification are invited to enjoy a free bagel and cream cheese at Manhattan Bagel Company’s participating locations on Veterans Day November 11.  No additional purchase is required. Call or visit your nearest location for details.


Houlihan’s – November 11, 2019:
All military members – both active-duty and Veterans – will receive a free and complimentary meal on Veterans Day. Guests must come with proof of duty by an I.D., photo in uniform, earning receipt or any other form of proof. Call or visit your nearest location for details.


Bombshells Restaurant and Bar – November 11, 2019
Veteran’s families and active service members receive free meals at Bombshells Restaurant and Bar on November 11 from 11 AM – 2 AM.  Please call ahead to your local Bombshell’s restaurant if you have any questions about your Veteran’s Day meals.


California Pizza Kitchen– November 11, 2019
Veterans and active U.S. military members with proof of service have an invitation to enjoy a complimentary meal from CPK’s Veterans Day menu at all participating California Pizza Kitchen locations nationwide. Please call ahead to your local California Pizza Kitchen if you have any questions about your Veteran’s Day meal.


The Chop House – November 11, 2019
Veterans receive a 50% discount with a valid military ID on November 11. This does not apply to alcoholic beverages. Please call ahead to your local Chop House if you have any questions about your Veteran’s Day Discount.


Cici’s Pizza – November 11, 2019
All active duty or retired military with a valid military ID are being offered a free pizza buffet on November 11. Please call ahead to your local Cicis Pizza if you have any questions about your Veteran’s Day Discount.


Connors Steak and Seafood – November 11, 2019
Veterans with a valid military ID receive a 50% discount on November 11. This offer does not apply to alcoholic beverages. Please call ahead to your local Connors Steak and Seafood if you have any questions about your Veteran’s Day Discount.


Cotton Patch Cafe – November 11, 2019
All Veterans and active military members are being offered a free Chicken Fried Steak or Chicken Fried Chicken with a drink on November 11. Please call ahead to your local Cotton patch café if you have any questions about your Veteran’s Day Discount.


Famous Dave’s – November 11, 2019
Military personnel and Veterans are being offered a free meal on November 11th at participating locations only. Proof of military service is required. Please call ahead to your local Famous Dave’s if you have any questions about your Veteran’s Day Discount.


Farmer Boys – November 11, 2019
Veterans and active duty military with valid proof of service get a free cheese cheeseburger on November 11. Please call ahead to your local Farmer Boys if you have any questions about your Veteran’s Day Discount.


Firebirds Wood Fired Grill – November 11, 2019
Veterans and active duty military with valid proof of service get a free lunch or dinner entree on November 11. Please call ahead to your local Firebirds Wood Fired Grill if you have any questions about your Veteran’s Day Discount.


Fired Pie – November 11, 2019
Veterans and active duty military with valid proof of service or are in uniform on receive a free entree November 11 for Veterans Day. Please call ahead to your local Fired pie if you have any questions about your Veteran’s Day Discount.


Joe’s Crab Shack – November 11, 2019
Veterans and active duty military with valid ID will enjoy 20 percent off on November 11. Please call ahead to your local Joe’s Crab Shack if you have any questions about your Veteran’s Day Discount.


Little Caesars Pizza – November 11, 2019
Veterans and active duty military with valid ID will receive a free $5 hot-n-ready lunch combo.On November 11, from 11am to 2pm. Please call ahead to your local Little Caesars Pizza if you have any questions about your Veteran’s Day Discount.


Logan’s Roadhouse – November 11, 2019
Veterans and active duty military with valid proof of service will receive a free American Roadhouse Meal on Veterans Day. Please call ahead to your local Logan’s Roadhouse if you have any questions about your Veteran’s Day Discount.


Luna Grill – November 11, 2019
Veterans, military service men and women with valid proof of service will receive their choice of a complimentary meal when they purchase a meal from November 9-11. Please call ahead to your local Luna Grill if you have any questions about your Veteran’s Day Discount.


Menchie’s – November 11, 2019
Veterans, military service men and women with valid proof of service will receive a free frozen yogurt on November 11 Please call ahead to your local Menchie’s if you have any questions about your Veteran’s Day Discount.


Orange Leaf Frozen Yogurt – November 11, 2019
Retired and active duty military with valid proof of service will receive a free froyo at participating locations on November 11. Please call ahead to your local Orange Leaf Frozen Yogurt if you have any questions about your Veteran’s Day Discount.


Veterans Day discounts at grocery stores

BJs Wholesale – November 11, 2019
Active duty military personnel and Veterans receive discounts on November 11, 2019, at BJs wholesale, which include 30% off standard membership fees. Additional incentives like extra money off coupons are occasionally offered for new members. Visit the BJs Wholesale website for details.


Publix – November 11, 2019
Veterans, active military, and their families receive 10% off purchases on November 11, 2019. Exceptions apply. Must show Veteran or military ID, discharge documents, or driver’s license with Veteran designation. https://ww4.publix.com/pages/veterans-day-discount 


Hy-Vee November 11, 2019
Veterans and active duty military with valid ID receive a free breakfast buffet during regular breakfast hours from 6am to 11 am on November 11. Please call ahead to your local Hy-Vee if you have any questions about your Veteran’s Day Discount.

Veterans Day discounts for haircuts

Great Clips – November 11, 2019
Veterans and current military members can visit a U.S. Great Clips salon on November 11 to receive either a free haircut that day or the free haircut card to use at a later date. Visit the Great Clips website for details. Visit the Great Clips website for details.


Sport Clips – November 11, 2019
Some locations will be offering free haircuts on November 11. Visit the Sports Clips website for details.


SmartStyle Hair SalonsNovember 11, 2019
Current or former military members, and veterans are being offered a 10% discount off any services and professional products on November 11. Please show proof of service to receive this special discount at participating salons. Walk-ins welcome. No double discounts. Discount may vary per location. Visit the SmartStyle website for details.

Veterans Day health

American Family CareNovember 11, 2019
Veterans are being offered free flu shots on Veterans Day, Monday, November 11. Veterans interested in obtaining a free flu shot are encouraged to visit AFCUrgentCare.com to find the nearest American Family Care. Visit the American Family Care website for details. (Reminder, Veterans receiving health care at VA are eligible for Free flu shots at your local Walgreens)


True Rest Float Spa – November 11, 2019
Free True Rest Float Spa 60-minute float session for active duty military and Veterans.Visit the True Rest website for details.

Veterans Day discounts in retail

The Home Depot – November 11, 2019
Veterans are being offered a 10% military discount on in-store purchases on select items. All veterans are eligible for this discount during the Veterans Day weekend. Visit the Home Depot website for details.


Walgreens – November 8-11, 2019
20% off for military, Veterans and their families. Walgreens also provides free flu shots for VA-enrolled Veterans. Visit the Walgreens website for details.


Rack Room Shoes – November 11, 2019
United States Military and families with a valid ID receive 10% off your entire purchase on November 11. In store only. Visit the Rack Room website for details. https://www.rackroomshoes.com/military-discount


Dollar General – November 11, 2019
Veterans and families receive an 11 % discount on qualifying items in store and online. See website for details.


Living Spaces – November 4-24, 2019
For every purchase of a select Revive product, Living Spaces will donate a mattress to a Veteran. Qualifying Revive products range from select mattresses to adjustable bases. Learn more: https://www.livingspaces.com/event/buy-one-give-one/veterans

Veterans Day Discounts on travel

La Quinta – November 11, 2019
Veterans and their families who book and stay at La Quinta hotels in the U.S. and Canada can take advantage of the 15% off military discount in light of Veterans Day on November 11. Visit the La Quinta website to book.


Legoland – November 11, 2019
Each U.S. service member on Monday, November 11, can receive a free American flag wristband and flyer (describing the discounts and events of the day) at the LEGOLAND Florida Resort ticket window. A wristband entitles the wearer to the special discounts on November 11 only. Visit the LEGOLAND Florida Resort website for details.


Harley Davidson MuseumNovember 11, 2019
All active military, Veterans and their families can gain free Museum entry into the Davidson Museum with valid Military or Veterans ID for 1 additional adult and up to 4 children 18 years old or younger On November 9-11. Visit the Harley-Davidson Museum website for details.



National Parks – November 11, 2019
Over 100 national parks will waive admission fees on November 11, 2019, in honor of Veterans Day. Contact your local park for information.(Disabled Veterans eligible for free National Park Service Lifetime Access Pass)

06 June 2019

A Veteran's Tale: D-Day


Allow me to tell this story of one of The Greatest Generation who didn't fall in battle ... because many, many of his buddies did. And we must not recall the war dead without remembering the survivors.

I had the honor of knowing Charlie Grech, a gentleman who served as an ambulance driver in WWII. He was in the D-Day landing on Normandy Beach. He immigrated to the U.S. as a boy, from Malta. It was during the early days of the Great Depression, so he went right to work, earning a few cents per day. He couldn't speak English then, he said, and wound up eating pea soup at a diner every day for nearly a month because he didn't know how to order a sandwich.

When he finally learned to say "ham sandwich", the waiter asked him "white bread or wheat?" He answered, "Pea soup." But he learned, and kept working whenever he could, into the early 1940s. Then the draft notice arrived.

After basic training, his company was sent to the Mojave Desert to train for North Africa. That campaign was over before they got called up. But Operation Overlord was coming up.


"I've never been so scared in my whole life," he told me. "I thought I was gonna wet my pants. Some guys did, but we all got wet when we got out of the landing craft, so it didn't matter. The bullets sounded like mosquitos, except worse than you could imagine. Guys were getting chopped to pieces. Sometimes you couldn't even recognize 'em after they got hit."

















Later, he participated in the Battle of the Bulge. 

"Every couple of hours, there'd be another rumor coming down the line that the Nazis had broken through, or that they'd infiltrated this unit or that one, or that we were cut off from the rest of the guys. I just kept picking up the wounded guys, and driving 'em back to where they needed to go. If a Kraut wanted to shoot me, he was welcome to try. Whenever I was scared, I'd just drive a little faster. So I drove fast a lot."

Charlie was an inspiration to me: just a normal guy whose family came to the States in search of opportunity. He never finished high school, and when he got called by Uncle Sam, he went. He had a job to do, and he did it. No crying, no fuss; he got the job done, and came back home.

"I was lucky," he said. "A lot of guys didn't make it back." But Charlie did.

He came back and married his best girl, Marcella, right after the war. Charlie worked in a factory until he retired. Marcella was a cook at an elementary school. For all that they had little education, they provided for a son who literally became a rocket scientist, working at White Sands when I met him.

When they retired, they lived in a small but tidy mobile home, in an equally-small subdivision out in the country. Charlie spent a lot of time sitting on the front porch, waving at the cars as people drove past. He always had a kind word for anyone who'd stop to talk. 

We lived across the street from Charlie and Marcella for nearly 12 years. Every day after work, I'd head over and have a long talk with him. Marcella would join us, most days. He always had a funny story to tell. The few times that he mentioned the war, he'd start to shake, even after all those years.

We moved away nearly thirty years ago. My in-laws mentioned them, from time to time, as they had mutual friends. I always wanted to go back and see him, but there never seemed to be time to travel all that way. Then we moved to Alaska, and that was the end of that.

Charlie passed away about 20 years ago. Marcella moved to a senior community and passed away 10 years later.

Rest in peace, Charlie. I'm richer for having known you, and we owed you far more than we could ever repay.

08 November 2018

Veterans' Day benefits

2018 Veterans Day offers, discounts

Military.com has compiled a list of free or reduced goods and services offered to servicemembers, veterans and their families by businesses and organizations in honor of Veterans Day. The list will continue to be updated as it gets closer to Nov. 11.

The following discounts have been confirmed by Military.com, through either press releases or direct communication with the company.

Most businesses require proof of military service, which can include a VA health identification card, military ID, DD-214 or veterans service organization card (e.g., The American Legion, VFW, DAV, AMVETS, MOAA, FRA, etc.). In some cases businesses will accept a picture of the veteran in uniform.

Note: Not all franchise locations participate in their national chain's Veterans Day programs, so contact your nearest establishment to make sure they are participating.

Also, visit www.legion.org/veteransbenefits/state to see what benefits and opportunities are available to veterans in your state.

2018 Veterans Day Restaurant Specials

54th Street Grill -- Veterans and active-duty military get a free entree up to $12 on Nov. 11.

Applebee's -- Veterans and active-duty military receive a free meal from a limited menu on Nov. 11.

Arooga's -- Veterans and active-duty military get a free meal from a fixed menu on Nov. 12.

Back Yard Burgers -- On Nov. 11, active-duty servicemembers and veterans get a free Back Yard Classic Burger.

Bakers Square -- Active-duty military and veterans can enjoy a free breakfast from a select menu on Nov. 11. Veterans and active-duty members will also receive a 20-percent-off-the-entire-check coupon valid for their next visit.

Bar Louie -- On Nov. 11, veterans and military personnel get a free burger or flatbread up to a $15 value.

BJ's Restaurant & Brewhouse -- For the month of November, BJ's Restaurant & Brewhouse and Dr Pepper are contributing 11,000 Pizookies® to the restaurant's 'Buy a Hero a Pizookie' program. Current or retired military simply claim a Pizookie® at www.bjsrestaurants.com/heropizookie Nov. 1-30, while supplies last. Once claimed, the offer is emailed and valid for 72 hours. Guests who would like to honor these heroes can contribute $1 or more on their restaurant bill to the program. With a contribution of $1 of more, guests will receive a bounce-back coupon for a FREE Pizookie® with any food purchase of $9.95 valid through 12/31/2018. And on Sunday, Nov. 11, all military members who dine in-restaurant receive a complimentary entree up to $12.95, plus a free Dr Pepper beverage, by presenting a military ID or proof of service at any BJ's Restaurant & Brewhouse location nationwide.

Buffalo Wild Wings -- Veterans and active-duty military personnel receive one small order of wings and a side of fries for free on Nov. 11.

California Pizza Kitchen – Veterans and active military receive a complimentary entree from a special menu on Nov. 11.

Cattlemens -- Active, inactive, and retired military personnel get a complimentary 8 oz. Sirloin Steak dinner on Nov. 11.

CentraArchy Restaurants -- Veterans and active-duty servicemembers get a free entree on Nov. 11.

Chevys Fresh Mex -- On Nov. 11, veterans and current servicemembers will be served a free meal from a select menu from 3 p.m. until closing.

Chili's -- Veterans and active military servicemembers get a free meal on Nov. 11.

Chipotle -- Active-duty military, reserves, National Guard, military spouses and retired military get a buy-one-get-one (BOGO) deal on Nov. 11.

Chop House -- On Nov. 11-12, veterans get 50 percent off any dine-in lunch or dinner entree.

Claim Jumper -- On November 12, veterans get a complimentary meal from a special menu.

Connors Steak & Seafood -- On Nov. 11-12, veterans get 50 percent off any dine-in lunch or dinner entree.

Cotton Patch Cafe -- Veterans and active-duty military get a free chicken fried steak or chicken fried chicken on Nov. 11.

Cracker Barrel -- Veterans get a complimentary slice of Double Chocolate Fudge Coca-Cola Cake or a Crafted Coffee on Nov. 11.

Dunkin' Donuts -- On Nov. 11, veterans and active-duty military receive a free donut at participating locations.

Eat'n Park -- All active and former military personnel will receive a 10 percent discount for the entire month of November.

El Torito -- On Nov. 11, veterans and current servicemembers will be served a free meal from a select menu from 3 p.m. until closing.

Famous Dave's -- On Nov. 11-12, former and current military personnel will receive a free 2 Meat Salute.

Fatz Southern Kitchen -- Veterans and active military get a free World Famous Calabash Chicken basket on Nov. 12. Fatz will also host Military Appreciation Month in November with a special offer; from Nov. 1-30, veterans and active military members will receive 25 percent off their entree.

Firebirds Wood Fired Grill -- Active-duty military and veterans get a free lunch or dinner entree on Nov. 12.

Friendly's -- Veterans and active military get a free breakfast, lunch or dinner from a limited menu on Nov. 11.

Golden Corral -- Golden Corral Restaurants' Military Appreciation Night free dinner will be available on Nov. 12 from 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. Military retirees, veterans, active duty, National Guard and reserves are all welcome.

Green Mill Restaurant and Bar -- Veterans and active-duty military get a free meal on Nov. 11.

Grub Burger Bar -- Active, inactive and retired military personnel get a complimentary entree on Nov. 11 at all locations.

Hooters -- Veterans and active-duty military get a free meal from a select menu at participating locations on Nov. 11.

Hoss's Steak and Sea House -- Veterans and active-duty military get a free meal from the soup, salad and dessert bar on Nov. 12.

Hy-Vee -- Veterans and active-duty military members get a free breakfast buffet on Nov. 12 from 6-11 a.m.

K&W Cafeterias -- Veterans and active duty get a free meal on Nov. 12 from 11 a.m. until closing.

Kings Family Restaurant -- Veterans and active military members get a free meal from a select menu on Nov. 12.

Little Caesars -- Veterans and active military members receive a free $5 Lunch Combo from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. on Nov. 11.

Logan's Roadhouse -- On Nov. 11 between 3 p.m. and 6 p.m., veterans and military personnel receive a free meal from the American Roadhouse Meals menu.

Lucille's Smokehouse BBQ -- During the month of November, active-duty and veteran military personnel get 20 percent off. On Nov. 11-12, active-duty military and veterans get a complimentary dessert.

Main Event -- On Nov. 11, veterans and active-duty military receive a complimentary $10 in arcade play that can be used on all Main Event arcade games, and can choose one entree from a select menu.

Max & Erma's – On Nov. 11, participating locations are offering veterans and active military personnel a free Best Cheeseburger in America.

McCormick & Schmick's Seafood Restaurants -- Veterans and Gold Star honorees (parents and spouse) can enjoy a free entree from a special menu on Nov. 11.

Menchie's -- Veterans and active military personnel get their first 6 ounces of frozen yogurt for free on Nov. 11.

On the Border -- Veterans receive a free Create Your Own Combo entree (Choose 2) on Nov. 11.

Pancho's Mexican Restaurant -- Veterans and active-duty servicemembers will receive a 25 percent discount on their bill on Nov. 11.

Pilot Flying J -- Active-duty and retired military veterans get a free breakfast Nov. 10-12.

Primanti Bros. -- Veterans and active-duty military get a free sandwich all day on Nov. 11.

Red Lobster -- Veterans, active-duty military and reservists get a free appetizer or dessert from a select menu Nov. 11-12.

Red Robin – Veterans and active-duty military get a free Red's Tavern Double Burger with Bottomless Steak Fries on Nov. 11.

RibCrib -- Veterans and active military personnel receive a free meal from a select menu on Nov. 11.

Rock and Brews -- Veterans and active military personnel receive a complimentary pulled pork sandwich or salad on Nov. 12.

Ruby Tuesday -- Veterans, active-duty and reserve servicemembers get a free appetizer on Nov. 11.

Sagebrush Steakhouse -- Veterans and active-duty military receive a free meal from a select menu on Nov. 11.

Scooter's Coffee -- Active and retired military get free drinks of any size on Nov. 11.

Shane's Rib Shack -- Active-duty military and veterans get a free sandwich combo Nov. 8-10 at participating locations.

Sheetz -- On Nov. 11, veterans and active-duty military personnel get a free 6-inch turkey sub and a regular-size fountain drink as well as a free car wash.

Spaghetti Warehouse -- From Nov. 9-11 buy one entree and get the second entree free. Coupon required.

Tap House Grill -- Active, inactive and retired military personnel get a complimentary meal on Nov. 11.

Texas Corral -- Veterans and active servicemembers get a free entree from a special menu along with an iced tea, lemonade or coffee on Nov. 11.

Texas de Brazil -- Two veterans dine complimentary, plus 20 percent off for up to six additional guests, on Nov. 11-12 during dinner service.

Texas Roadhouse -- Veterans and active members of the military get a free lunch on Nov. 11 from a select menu.

TooJay's -- Veterans and active-duty military get a free entree from a special menu on Nov. 11.

Tucanos Brazilian Grill -- Veterans get a free Churrasco meal with the purchase of another Churrasco meal, Nov. 9-12.

Twin Peaks – Active-duty and veterans get a free meal from a select menu on Nov. 12.

Wienerschnitzel -- Veterans and active-duty military receive a free Chili Dog, small fries and a 20 oz. drink on Nov. 11.

Wild Wing Cafe -- Veterans eat for free all day from select items on Nov. 11 at participating locations.

2018 Veterans Day Travel and Recreation Discounts

9/11 Memorial and Museum -- Veterans will receive free museum admission, as well as half-price museum tickets for up to two family members, Nov. 7-11.

Aquarium of the Pacific -- Veterans and military personnel get free admission on Nov. 11.

Army Corps of Engineers Recreation Areas -- The U.S. Army Corps of Engineers will waive day use fees at its recreation areas nationwide Nov. 11-12.

B&Bs for Vets -- Complimentary rooms at inns will be offered to veterans on or around Nov. 11.

Birmingham Zoo -- Veterans, active and retired military and their dependents will receive free admission on Nov. 11-12.

Boston Bruins -- In conjunction with Military Appreciation Night on Nov. 5, all military will receive a 20 percent off discount at the ProShop and all GameDay ProShop locations.

Boston Duck Tours -- Veterans and active military ride free Nov. 12-16. Dependents ride for $10 per person (plus 5 percent CCF surcharge).

Colonial Williamsburg -- Military families can receive a free admission ticket during Veterans Day weekend.

Greater Des Moines Botanical Garden -- Veterans get free admission on Nov. 11.

Harley-Davidson Museum -- The Harley-Davidson Museum is offering free admission to active military, veterans and their families November 9-11 in honor of Veterans Day.

Killington Resort – Active-duty, retired and honorably discharged members of the military ski for free on Nov. 11.

Knott's Berry Farm – Active-duty military and veterans receive free admission for themselves and 1 guest Nov. 1 - 15 and Nov. 26 - December 21. Additional discounted tickets may be purchased at the ticket booth.

LEGOLAND Florida – November 1-30, all veterans and active-duty military can receive free admission. Veterans also can purchase theme park tickets for up to six guests at a 50 percent discount on the same dates.

Main Event -- On Nov. 11, veterans and active-duty military receive a complimentary $10 in arcade play that can be used on all Main Event arcade games, and can choose one entree from a select menu.

Mariners' Museum -- Active-duty and retired military, veterans and their immediate families get free admission on Nov. 11.

"Mickey: The True Original" -- This 16,000-sq.-ft. immersive pop-up exhibition opens in NYC on Nov. 8, open through February in celebration of Mickey Mouse's 90th anniversary. On Nov. 11, veterans and active-duty military can attend the exhibition free of charge, in addition to a few friends and family of theirs.

Montpelier -- Veterans get free House tours Nov. 9-11. Veterans also receive a 10 percent discount on any purchase at the Museum Shop.

Monticello -- Veterans get complimentary admission for Veterans Day weekend, Nov. 10-12.

Mount Vernon -- All active-duty, former or retired military personnel are admitted for free on Nov. 11.

National Parks -- On Nov. 11, veterans will have access to over 100 national parks that require entrance fees for free.

National WWI Museum and Memorial -- Admission is free for veterans and active-duty military personnel Nov. 9-11.

Natural History Museum of Utah -- Former members of the military, plus one additional guest each, receive free admission on Nov. 10-12.

New Mexico Museum of Space History -- Veterans get free admission on Nov. 11.

Newseum -- Veterans and active-duty members of the military plus one guest get free admission on Nov. 10-11.

NY Waterway -- NY Waterway will provide free ferry/bus service for active-duty servicemembers and military veterans who come in uniform or with a valid military ID on Veterans Day, Sunday, Nov. 11. Visit nywaterway.com/veteransday for more information, or call 1-800-53-FERRY.

Point Defiance Zoo and Aquarium -- On November 10-12, active-duty servicemembers and veterans receive free admission. Immediate family members will receive half off general admission.

Pro Football Hall of Fame -- Throughout the month of November, all veterans and active military plus one guest get free museum admission and parking.

Riverbanks Zoo and Garden -- All military veterans who have served or are serving in the U.S. Armed Forces, will receive free admission on Nov. 11.

Super 8 by Wyndham -- From Oct. 16-Dec. 11, 2018, any current or retired military personnel, veterans and their families who book and stay at participating Super 8 hotels in the United States and Canada can take advantage of Super 8's 20-percent-off military discount. Additionally, guests who book using this offer through a Wyndham direct booking channel will be automatically enrolled into Wyndham Rewards and eligible for 500 bonus points. Learn more at super8.com/military.

The Alamo -- Active-duty military and veterans get free tours on Nov. 11.

Westgate Resorts -- Westgate Resorts are honoring our U.S. military personnel and their families by giving away free vacations. On Nov. 9, they will open up registration for the event that will be held in May 2019.

Woodland Park Zoo -- Active, retired and veteran military personnel and their spouses get free admission on Nov. 11.

World of Coca-Cola -- Active-duty, reserves and retirees get free admission year-round, and from Nov. 1-11, members of the armed forces may also purchase up to four half-price general admission tickets for their friends and family.

2018 Veterans Day Retail Offerings

Academy Sports + Outdoors -- Current and former military members and their immediate families get 10 percent off their entire purchase, Oct. 31 through Nov. 11.

Brides Across America -- Brides Across America holds a wedding gown giveaway for military in partnership with bridal salons across the country in November. Qualifying brides register to attend the event at a participating bridal salon by completing the registration form and paying a $40 fee. Attend the event and select one of the designated gowns on display. Visit the Brides Across America website for more details.

Enterprise Car Sales -- Active-duty military members, veterans and their dependents get a Firestone Prepaid Maintenance Package with any used-vehicle purchase during the month of November.

Goodyear -- Goodyear Auto Service and Just Tires locations nationwide are offering active and retired military members free "Checks for Vets," plus up to 10 percent off tires, Nov. 9-11.

Grace for Vets -- Car washes from around the world that join this program offer free car washes to veterans and servicemembers on Nov. 11.

Great Clips – On November 11, veterans and current military members can visit a Great Clips salon to receive either a free haircut or a free-haircut card to use at a later date. Non-military customers can purchase a service on Veterans Day and get a free-haircut card to give to a veteran you know. Haircuts are redeemable until Dec. 31.

Home Depot -- Home Depot offers a 10 percent discount to all veterans on Nov. 11. Home Depot offers the 10 percent discount year-round to active-duty and retirees.

Mattress Firm -- Veterans and their families get 20 percent off any purchase Nov. 9-12 in-store or online.

Muscle Feast -- www.MuscleFeast.com offers a 10-percent discount to all veterans and active-duty personnel on Nov. 11. The 10 -ercent discount is offered year-round.

Publix -- Veterans, military personnel and their families save 10 percent on groceries on Nov. 11.

Rack Room Shoes -- Military personnel and their dependents get a 10 percent discount off an entire purchase on Nov. 11.

Sears Garage Services -- From Nov. 9-12, anyone with a valid military ID can save 10 percent off any product or service.

Southeastern Grocers -- Veterans and active military get an 11 percent discount on qualifying grocery purchases on Nov. 11.

Sport Clips -- Participating locations are offering veterans and active-duty servicemembers free haircuts on Nov. 11.

Target -- In honor of Veterans Day, Target will offer all active-duty military, veterans and their spouse and/or dependent children (up to age 18) a 10-percent discount on their purchases, in store and online at Target.com, from Nov. 4-12, 2018. The discount is available through a single-use coupon, and has grown from its five-day duration last year. Eligible guests can visit Target.com/military to register and receive the discount.  

TOPS -- Veterans and active military personnel receive an 11 percent discount off a total order on Nov. 11.

Tractor Supply -- This Veterans Day, customers with a valid military ID or proof of service, and their dependents, will receive 15 percent off their entire purchase. This discount will be offered on Saturday, Nov. 11, and will be available at all of Tractor Supply's more than 1,725 locations nationwide.

11 November 2017

Veterans' Day 2017

It all seemed so glamorous and romantic, back then. We were so young, and mostly naive. Most of us wanted to be part of something big and important ... something we could be proud of. A few were there under threat of "enlist or go to jail" for some infraction or other. 

We came from all over ... small-town boys, big-city boys, country boys, hippies, high school kids, a few farmers, a construction worker, college drop-outs. Heads and straights, some so straight that they squeaked when they walked. The long hair, mutton chops, beards, mustaches, tie-dyed shirts, bell-bottom jeans, all formed the unofficial uniform of the lingering fringe of the hippie movement.

One or two were married; most were not. Many left girlfriends, and all left family behind. But everyone there that morning in Recruit Training Command, Great Lakes Naval Training Center in July 1973 had sworn an oath in the days or months before: a solemn oath to commit all we were or were to become to the U.S. Navy ... to be obedient to orders, to be good sailors, and so wrote a blank check to "Uncle Sam". 


Whether in time or war or in peace, every enlistee knows deep inside that things could go sideways at any time. There could be a bullet, rocket, grenade, bomb, faulty equipment, accident ... any number of things. Yes, we knew that blank check could include our lives, but everyone who's 18 years old is convinced of their own immortality. Other people die, but not us.

Isn't that the way it works?

And thus began weeks of basic training - "boot camp", so named because a few decades earlier, naval recruits wore leggings that resembled knee-high boots, and were called "boots" while in training. Weeks of classroom study, practical application, physical training, shooting, running, working out ... learning to fold our clothes.

Don't laugh. Learning the optimal way to fold your uniforms ensured that all those items would fit in the 1' x 2' x 2' locker that each would be allotted on shipboard. We joked that, somewhere in the darkest recesses of the bowels of the Pentagon, some old admiral designed new ways to fold our skivvies. And you know what? Someone did just that, but for the reason given above. In those short weeks of basic training, we still had no idea what life in the fleet would be like.

After basic, each received orders to their next station: some to ships, and most to schools to learn the trades that we'd either requested, or those which the Navy in its infinite and inscrutable wisdom had chosen for us.

I was offered the opportunity to go into nuclear propulsion, but turned it down because they wanted me to extend my four-year enlistment to six years ... and frankly, at the age of 18 with just two months of training, I had no idea what I was getting into. So I stuck with the field I'd originally requested: personnel.  It's called "human resources" now, but I fail to see the difference.

Training school was in Orlando, Florida. That entire base has been gone for years, long since converted to a "planned unit development" with neighborhoods, malls, gas stations, and so on. Nothing makes a veteran feel over-the-hill as quickly as discovering that even the base where you trained no longer exists.

But we were young, and life was still ahead of us. The war in Viet Nam was just winding down, although it would go on for another two years. President Nixon announced in March '73 that no one else would be sent there unless they volunteered. I enlisted the next day, still not sure whether I'd volunteer for 'Nam or choose another path.

We were young ... and we made choices based on advice, family stories, our very limited experience, and often mere whimsy. We were so very, very young.

Everyone went through a progression from boyhood to manhood during those few, short weeks of basic training. Somewhere around the third week, for most, every single man jack of us spent one night crying ourselves to sleep, in the dawning realization that we couldn't go home again,that boyhood was truly over and life would never be the same. The next morning was the same as all the others ... but we weren't: we were a bit more somber with the realization achieved the night before, and in the knowledge that we were doing something important with our lives, and a new-found confidence that what we were doing was the right thing.

I've made a lot of choices since, and have regretted some, as has everyone else. But I've never regretted the decision to enlist. 

It was the right thing to do. Yes, we were very young ... but who says wisdom is the exclusive province of the elders?

11 November 2016

Veterans' Day: A Remembrance

It all seemed so glamorous and romantic, back then. We were so young, and mostly naive. Most of us wanted to be part of something big and important ... something we could be proud of. A few were there under threat of "enlist or go to jail" for some infraction or other.

We came from all over ... small-town boys, big-city boys, country boys, hippies, high school kids, a few farmers, a construction worker, college drop-outs. Heads and straights, some so straight that they squeaked when they walked. The long hair, mutton chops, beards, mustaches, tie-dyed shirts, bell-bottom jeans, all formed the unofficial uniform of the lingering fringe of the hippie movement.



One or two were married; most were not. Many left girlfriends, and all left family behind. But everyone there that morning in Recruit Training Command, Great Lakes Naval Training Center in July 1973 had sworn an oath in the months before: a solemn oath to commit all we were or were to become to the U.S. Navy ... to be obedient to orders, to be good sailors, and so wrote a blank check to "Uncle Sam". Yes, we knew that blank check could include our lives, but everyone who's 18 years old is convinced of their own immortality. Other people die, but not us.

Isn't that the way it works?

And thus began weeks of basic training - "boot camp", so named because a few decades earlier, naval recruits wore leggings that resembled boots, and so were called "boots" while in training. Weeks of classroom study, practical application, physical training, shooting, running, working out ... and learning to fold our clothes.

Don't laugh. Learning the optimal way to fold your uniforms ensured that all those items would fit in the 1' x 2' x 2' locker that each would be allotted on shipboard. We joked that, somewhere in the darkest recesses of the bowels of the Pentagon, some old admiral designed new ways to fold our skivvies. And you know what? Someone did just that, but for the reason given above. In those short weeks of basic training, we still had no idea what life in the fleet would be like.

After basic, each received orders to their next station: some to ships, and most to schools to learn the trades that we'd either requested, or those which the Navy in its infinite and inscrutable wisdom had chosen for us.

I was asked to go into nuclear propulsion, but turned it down because they wanted me to extend my four-year enlistment to six years ... and frankly, at the age of 18 with just two months of training, I had no idea what I was getting into. So I stuck with the field I'd originally requested: personnel. It's called "human resources" now, but I fail to see the difference.

Training school was in Orlando, Florida. That entire base has been gone for years, long since converted to a "planned unit development" with neighborhoods, malls, gas stations, and so on. Nothing makes a veteran feel over-the-hill as quickly as discovering that even the base where he trained no longer exists.

But we were young, and life was still ahead of us. The war in Viet Nam was just winding down, although it would go on for another two years. President Nixon announced in March '73 that no one else would be sent there unless they volunteered. I enlisted the next day, still not sure whether I'd volunteer for 'Nam or choose another path.

We were young ... and we made choices based on advice, family stories, our very limited experience, and often mere whimsy. We were so very, very young.

Everyone went through a progression from boyhood to manhood during those few, short weeks of basic training. Somewhere around the third week, for most, every single man jack of us spent one night crying ourselves to sleep in the sudden, dawning realization that we couldn't go home again, that the life we'd known was truly over, and that things would never be the same. The next morning was the same as all the others ... but we weren't: we were a bit more somber with the realization achieved the night before, and in the knowledge that we were doing something important with our lives, and a new-found confidence (for most of us) that what we were doing was the right thing.

I've made a lot of choices since, and have regretted some, as has everyone else. But I've never regretted the decision to enlist.

It was the right thing to do. Yes, we were very young ... but who says wisdom is the exclusive province of the elders?

11 November 2015

Veterans' Day
























And to all the sailors, soldiers, airmen, and Marines who stop by this corner of the 'net, may you have the best day you've ever had, today. This old sailor salutes each of you, and thanks you for the honor of serving with you.

God bless you!

28 July 2015

It's a Big Deal

Most of you are familiar with Chris Kyle, the Navy sniper who wrote the book "American Sniper."
You're probably also aware that he, as a combat veteran with PTSD, was working with other veterans suffering from that.
From wikipedia: Christopher Scott "Chris" Kyle (April 8, 1974 − February 2, 2013) was a United States Navy SEAL and the most lethal sniper in U.S. military history.


You probably also know that he and a friend were working with a traumatized veteran who turned on them, and killed them both.

Now here's some more to the story:

In Anchorage today, the Chris Kyle Patriots Hospital will be officially dedicated by Mrs. Taya Kyle (Chris' widow), along with a number of invited dignitaries and friends.

Taya Kyle


From the hospital's website:
Chris Kyle Patriots Hospital provides an intensive dual track treatment program for military service members and veterans, who have experienced trauma and are in need of detoxification and/or rehabilitation for substance abuse.

[snip]  Holistic in nature, the Chris Kyle Patriots Hospital is attentive to needs of the whole self—the mind, the body and the spirit, and therefore, provides services that enhance the mind, strengthen the body, and empower the spirit.

 A facility to treat the effects of post-traumatic stress is sorely needed, and it's wonderful to see this.